Sunday, October 08, 2006

Love Language Results

Well none, of these results come as a surprise.

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch:
11
Quality Time:
8
Receiving Gifts:
7
Acts of Service:
2
Words of Affirmation:
2

Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

Take the quiz

I did have a database of about 25 different people's results, and i have averages and a whole heap of other interesting bit of information in there.

From those results i found that the majority of people had a longing for either Physical Touch or Quality time in their relationship. What i found interesting about that is that this is what I see lacking in the majority of relationship. We are always chasing our tales around the joint, and we have lost meaningful ways to phyically interact with people.

Some time I will write a blog about physical touch and our relationships, and how for the most part something so deep and meaningful is now just a mandaine activity.

Just a question to ask yourself. Do you remember your first kiss, or even the first semi-intimate touch you had with someone of the opposite gender? How would you rate that moment? was it wonderous? Were you pushed into it?

Watch this space!!

posted by Cozmos @ 12:39 AM

2 Comments:

At 6:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

The whole love language thing has revolutionised my relationships with those i love -family and friends. It's one of many ways to understand how best to serve another person! yay!

God bless
Maria in the UK
www.inhishands.co.uk

 
At 10:19 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

My LL is words of affirmation, followed by acts of service. I don't really care too much about gifts or touch, but quality time is always nice :) And yes, I remember my first kiss, but more than that I remember the time a guy held my hand and it really meant something... aww. I'm gonna cry now.

Rach x

 

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